"As for a person who stirs up division, after warning him once and then twice, have nothing more to do with him, knowing that such a person is warped and sinful; he is self-condemned." Titus 3:10
Have you found yourself involved with a female friend or romantic partner who passed as 'normal', only to discover too late in the game that they were a fraud?
I'm not talking about garden variety toxic behaviors like being prone to excessive drama, jealousy or always needing you for something but failing to reciprocate.
While these are signs of bad behavior and justify ending a relationship if they become patterns that cause you to feel stressed and exhausted, they pale in comparison to the heinous, sometimes dangerous games that female psychopaths play.
Slipping Through the Cracks
Can a woman be a psychopath?
The answer is, Yes.
However, biases actually protect women from being properly recognized as psychopaths due to social beliefs that women aren't capable of truly evil behavior, and male-centric definitions of psychopathy which were originally designed to capture traits within the male prison population.
Crazy is as Crazy Does
So, how do you recognize a female with psychopathic traits? It can be difficult because they will likely manipulate you into a false sense of closeness through feigned kindness and concern, made-up stories and flattery. Underneath is an insatiable desire for power and control.
Psychopaths are often recognized in hindsight, as the the cracks in their behavior begin to show, and their mask of sanity slips.
Red Flags of Female Psychopaths
They are adept at Masking, allowing them to mimic socially acceptable emotions and behaviors to garner sympathy or attention depending on the situation at hand. This allows them to escape detection, and hide the hidden contempt and sadism that drives them, from which they derive pleasure from causing others pain.
They can be superficially Charming, mimicking words of love and affirmation that they don't actually feel, to lure people in. In fact, female psychopaths are Emotionally Impoverished, lacking insight and the capacity to feel true empathy and love for others.
They are Easily Bored and enjoy manufacturing chaos to have a sense of power and control. You will find them Trolling online, demeaning, slandering and insulting others, especially women they are jealous of.
Female psychopaths are Relationally Aggressive , filled with malicious Envy that they channel into their social relationships. They do not have real friendships or romantic partnerships, but simulated ones, where their connections with others are are a merely a ploy to serve their own insatiable needs.
In summary, the female psychopath is pathologically Self-Absorbed.
Once the spellbinding phase of the relationship is over, and she disarms you with charm, flattery, feigned kindness, and her perpetual victimhood, she will seek to have control and power over you for her own gain.
If you're dealing with a female psychopath run , do not walk, to the nearest exit.
It's important to minimize contact and if possible, cut all ties.
Get professional support to heal from the intimate terrorism and psychological maltreatment you have experienced and know that
You deserve respect
You deserve freedom
You deserve to heal
You deserve to live Psychopath Free.
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